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1. het gelijktijdig bestaan van twee tegengestelde wilsneigingen
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am·bi·ten·den·tie
1. het gelijktijdig bestaan van twee tegengestelde wilsneigingen
Last van, alweer
(via sentimenteelgezwets)
Not to offer advice nobody asked for but fixing ur sleep schedule is life changing
Things that actually work if u try at them:
- Drinking water
- No longer making self deprecating jokes
- Making sure to take time out of the day to relax and take a breather
- Lighting candles
- Counting ur breaths in and out if ur having a panic attack
- Getting up and trying to do one thing even if u can’t do everything maybe brushing ur teeth but not having the energy to shower
Taking a shower if you can, putting clean clothes on if you can’t, even just a clean set of pjs. Washing your face.
A couple weeks ago I was in a major depressive slump and was feeling really detached from reality. I was trying so hard to fight it but nothing I tried worked until I realized I hadn’t listened to any happy music in almost a week.
I didn’t feel like listening to anything at all but I put on my favorite playlist anyway. Take On Me started and I finger stimmed to the keyboard riff and hummed along and by the end of the song I was smiling. A few more songs and I was fully singing along and feeling more present than I had in days.
Even if it seems small and trivial, like putting on your favorite socks or looking up pictures of kittens, it might be something you need. Of course the music didn’t solve any of the problems I was upset about, but it did help me feel like I was a person again.
This isn’t one of those “must be good to be neurotypical” posts btw, these are small and accessible steps that can really help.
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Someone being patient with you is one of the softest forms of love
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quick question: how the fuck do I get through the rest of my life like this
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running up the hill to make a deal with god again. anyone need anything
Just want to say I’m fucking disappointed in this country. I never really felt Dutch, I have never really liked being Dutch, but with the elections’ outcome now, I fucking HATE being Dutch. It’s terrifying seeing towards which way this country is moving. Things are going to get out of hand. It’s terrifying as hell. But I’m ready to keep standing up for poc, the lgbtiq+ community and all oppressed (including myself) by the omnipresent neoliberalist, capitalist policies in this worn out country. We won’t stand down.